Well I quickly found out it's much more complicated than that and online dating has been a way bigger challenge than I ever thought. I would be so happy to just meet someone who I could get together with on a weekend to go see a great movie, we could go out before or after and laugh, share a good cup of coffee, and consider whether we are compatible or not.
Hopefully someone here will be interested, I'm at a place now where I'm fine being alone if that's what I will be for the rest of my life. I'd enjoy meeting that special someone, they say when you least expect it you will find, but if not I'm happy with my life. I have a great job, a nice car, a couple friends and I'm thankful for what I have.